Why All Moms Deserve a “Girls’ Trip”
Girls’ Trip!
Why ALL Moms Deserve a “Girls’ Trip”
I am sure it won’t take much convincing to plead my case that all moms deserve and NEED a girls’ trip every now and then. However, if you are anything like me, it takes some internal convincing to just stop and take that well-deserved break to begin with.
I love traveling with my family as well as with only my husband. It is a way for our family to make memories and connect on a different level. When I’m traveling with my husband it is our way of reconnecting as husband and wife sans kids, and remembering there is more to our relationship than just managing our house full of little ladies.
Even if you allow yourself family travel and romantic getaways with your spouse, it is not enough. You need time to yourself beyond your family relationships and going on a “girls’ trip” can provide many busy moms a much-needed respite.
3 Reasons all Moms Need and Deserve a Girls’ Trip
Planning a girl’s trip only requires making sure your significant other is home and available for your kids. When you travel with a spouse there is the hassle of finding someone you trust to stay overnight with your children. That can be a lot for some families. When you travel with friends it eliminates this hurdle all together!
You become responsible for one as opposed to two or more. I don’t think I need to explain this one any further!
Time with friends is something completely different! Girls’ trips can recharge us in so many ways and the time we spend with friends is at times exactly what we need. How you utilize this time is up to you! Spend it venting about children and parenting duties, or take time to not mention parenting life all together. The beauty is if you are with friends the connection is different from a spouse or family member.
This is not to say Dads don’t deserve a “guys’ trip” because I think they absolutely do—for all the same reasons. What I will say is women are more natural caregivers and less likely to make time just for themselves.
Sometimes the thought of planning a trip seems overwhelming for busy moms. However, you can keep these getaways simple when necessary.
Here are some ideas for quick and easy girls’ trips
Grab tickets to a local concert or your favorite comedian. Book a hotel close to the venue and make a staycation out of it.
Find a local spa or one within driving distance with hotel accommodations and plan a weekend of pampering and relaxing by the pool.
Hit the road for a long weekend to a destination within four hours of your hometown. This will save on costs and time, but still be a fun “getaway” adventure!
Hop on a direct flight for a long weekend! Look at all the destinations your local airport flies to and pick a location that works for everyone involved. Direct flights make traveling less stressful and allow for more relaxing vacation time at your destination.
If you have been considering a girls’ trip, what are you waiting for? Do it! Your family will thank you when they reap the benefits of an emotionally refreshed mother and wife when you return home. Don’t forget to tell me all about it when you do take the time for yourself!